OK – Let’s be honest, your wedding dress, could be one of the most important parts of your day…
BUT… I am here to relieve the pressure and give you all my tips / tricks / words of wisdom from both a bride’s and a planner’s point of view.
So, firstly, let’s get things into perspective. When I started thinking about my dress, I remember saying that it was the most important purchase of my life “more than a property” is the exact line I used…
And while that was a touch dramatic, I do appreciate it is such a big thing! But So, here’s what I believe made my experience the best it could be and will hopefully help you:
- Start with booking just one boutique to avoid overwhelming yourself
- Practice a little self-care, whether it is an at-home face mask an early night, or a relaxing bath – do something that makes you feel good
- This one is a little strange, but go with it… Have low expectations, I am truly not a negative person in any way, but I actually think having little to no expectations of what your experience is going to be, allows it to be a little less pressured if it doesn’t go exactly how you had planned in your mind!
- Plan a day around the booking so that you aren’t just focussed on the dress, book a lunch for after so you have something else to look forward to
- Really and truly keep an open mind, try on a variety of styles to start with but then nail down the style of dress you feel best in and keep with that – not what looks best on ‘Instagram’ but what looks and feels best for YOU and you only.
- Don’t try too many on / go to too many shops. My sweet spot was 3 boutiques and because you can go on forever and ever.
- Once you have made your decision, don’t keep looking at other dresses. Delete any content you possibly can from your feeds / photo albums, the dress you have chosen was meant for you, go with it and trust!
- Stay true to YOU and your style – that’s where the magic happens!
- The less you would change about the dress the better – if you really wouldn’t want to change much, that’s the one!
- Finally, ensure you feel absolutely comfortable and confident in it – can eat, drink, and dance the night away and still feel absolutely incredible because believing in your beauty is the best possible outfit you can wear!
I truly love to talk all things weddings – wherever you are in your process, I would love to help. Everything I do is entirely unique to you! To learn more about my tips, approach, and services, please complete an enquiry form and we can arrange a complimentary consultation to come up with a perfect plan tailored to you and your partner, or email alicia@aliciamarieweddings.co.uk – I’d love to help!
ENDS
Image: Hermia Bridal